MARRIAGE IS FOR GROWN FOLKS

Listen y’all know I’m pro marriage. I love marriage. I think it’s a wonderful thing and it provides a level of protection to women and children that is no longer politically correct to talk about.

But going into dating for marriage with the strategy of an idiot OR an adversary is a losing position both ways.

We are flawed human beings trying to partner with other flawed human beings. The sooner we remove the fantasy of what this thing really is, the better off we’ll all be. I suppose one of the reasons that we have so many fantasies is because we never saw an actual example of a healthy loving husband, wife dynamic.

So we’ve gone to our fantasies of men as saviors that we can marry and be little girls again or men as devils to marry and treat like a low-key enemy to financially drain and mock behind his back.

Neither one of those strategies are sustainable in the long run.

THE MIDDLE PATH IS THE PATH OF WISDOM.

Marriage is for grown folks.

Nikki

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Who's Nikki?

Hi there! I'm Nikki (aka Lady CRO), the creator and director of the Exceptional Woman School, where we work on cultivating the exceptional mindset that allows you to have TRUE confidence and the courage to create and sustain a great life.

The CRO stands for "Cultivating Relationships and Opportunities". I believe the cultivation of yourself, your relationship with others, and your life skills are what give you the ability to create a successful career, a happy and productive marriage, and joyful motherhood, if you so choose. That's what I focus on here.

I hope you enjoy the conversation, and that I'll see you in a class very soon!

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