There are big rites of passage and there are SEEMINGLY small ones that happen throughout a child's developmental stages that lets her know that she is so loved and covered.
One of the little rites of passage that I never got to experience is going to a nice store and having my dad buy me something lovely. I only saw him a handful of times as a girl, and anytime money was involved, it was because he got someone else to buy something (usually a girlfriend).
I was always so jealous and sad when I would hear other girls talk about the things that their daddy bought for them. I couldn't relate at all, and it made me feel so unloved.
One of the reasons that I didn't have children until my 30s is because I was determined to find someone that wasn't just a great husband, but also a loving and generous father. It was frustrating at times sticking to my principles, but I'm so glad I did.
Last Sunday, we went out to brunch and afterwards walked over to one of my favorite stores, Williams-Sonoma. I wanted to get some new dishes and a new tablecloth for the Feast of Pentecost, so hubby obliged.
My daughter saw a lovely serving dish, ran over to me and grabbed my hand to show it to me. As you hear in the video, I asked if she wanted daddy to get it for her and she said yes.
When she asked, he did NOT respond begrudgingly, he smiled at her the way a father that loves his daughter does, knowing he's totally wrapped around her finger.
Her little dish was the centerpiece of our feast this Sunday, and my husband complimented my 3 year old baby girl on her exquisite taste in serveware .
A small rite of passage had successfully been completed and another curse broken.
Hi there! I'm Nikki (aka Lady CRO), the creator and director of the Exceptional Woman School, where we work on cultivating the exceptional mindset that allows you to have TRUE confidence and the courage to create and sustain a great life.
The CRO stands for "Cultivating Relationships and Opportunities". I believe the cultivation of yourself, your relationship with others, and your life skills are what give you the ability to create a successful career, a happy and productive marriage, and joyful motherhood, if you so choose. That's what I focus on here.
I hope you enjoy the conversation, and that I'll see you in a class very soon!